How Comfortable Are You With Yourself?
The following quiz is designed to measure how comfortable you are with yourself. To take the quiz, answer the following questions honestly:
- I envy others a lot. __ Like me __Unlike me
- I’m happy in my life. __ Like me __Unlike me
- I have a lot of noise inside my head. I can’t stop thinking about things. __Like me __Unlike me
- I feel proud of what I’ve done and what I’ve accomplished. __Like me __Unlike me
- I have good relationships with my extended family: my parents, children and other relatives __Like me __Unlike me
- I have good relationships with my in-laws. __Like me __Unlike me
- I have a hard time trusting people. __Like me __Unlike me
- I feel comfortable receiving affection. __Like me __Unlike me
- I feel comfortable receiving love. __Like me __Unlike me
- I feel comfortable giving affection to others. __Like me __Unlike me
- I feel comfortable giving love or being loving. __Like me __Unlike me
- I am fearful a lot. __Like me __Unlike me
- There’s a lot of things I’m anxious about. __Like me __Unlike me
- I seem starved for other’s approval. __Like me __Unlike me
- I don’t get the acknowledgement and recognition I deserve. __Like me __Unlike me
- I make friends easily. __Like me __Unlike me
- I feel like I’m still messed up from things that happened to me in my childhood. __Like me __Unlike me
- I felt loved and valued by my father. __Like me __Unlike me
- I felt loved and valued by my mother. __Like me __Unlike me
- I feel successful in love. __Like me __Unlike me
- I feel successful at my work. __Like me __Unlike me
- Overall, I’m glad I’m me and I like my life. __Like me __Unlike me
- I can be a lot of fun to be with. __Like me __Unlike me
- There’s a big defensive wall I frequently hide behind. __Like me __Unlike me
- I’m a people pleaser a lot. __Like me __Unlike me
- I frequently feel cheated by life—that I’ve lost out. __Like me __Unlike me
- I would describe myself as a able, capable, competent person. __Like me __Unlike me
- People see me as trustworthy and reliable. __Like me __Unlike me
- I tend to choose emotionally unavailable intimate partners __Like me __Unlike me
- I tend to reject intimate partners who want me a lot. __Like me __Unlike me
- I can usually make up my mind and stick to my decisions. __Like me __Unlike me
- I like being the gender that I am. __Like me __Unlike me
- I often feel ashamed of myself. __Like me __Unlike me
- I feel heard and understood most of the time. __Like me __Unlike me
- I get upset easily when I am criticized or when someone asks me to do something differently. __Like me __Unlike me
- I get angry at people a lot. __Like me __Unlike me
- I easily get discouraged. __Like me __Unlike me
- I love myself. __Like me __Unlike me
- I can do most anything I set my mind to. __Like me __Unlike me
- I would describe myself as attractive, sexy and appealing. __Like me __Unlike me
- My sex life is satisfying and fulfilling. __Like me __Unlike me
What does this quiz tell you about yourself and what you may want to change about your like?
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